Fewer companies are holding office parties this holiday season, based on the results of a survey conducted by Amrop Battalia Winston, an executive search firm. But, while there may be fewer parties, those that do hold office parties will provide more alcohol.
If your company is sponsoring a party this year, it’s a good idea to attend because not only do you have a chance to mingle with coworkers and decision-makers in a relaxed setting, but you show your support for work-sponsored events with your presence.
Here’s the thing about office parties: You can have a great time, make some meaningful contacts and relax with coworkers but you need to keep things professional. This doesn’t mean you have to be boring, but it does mean you should stay alert to your surroundings.
You can have fun at your office holiday party. In fact, these events give you a chance to practice balancing your social and professional skills.
What happens at the office party does not stay at the office party. Your actions at the party will be remembered by your boss and others who may be observing you for future plans with the company. And, thanks to Facebook and Twitter, what happens at these events can catch the attention of recruiters and hiring decisions-makers who might be thinking of your for a new position.
The key is to remember you are still at work just in a more social and relaxed way.
Here are some tips that will help you make the most of your company’s office party:
• Check on policies about inviting a guest and RSVP as soon as possible. It helps the people who are ordering food and beverages.
• Don’t let being anxious in crowds keep you from attending. If appropriate, ask a friend to join you, or attend with a colleague who can introduce you to people.
• Prepare to keep conversations moving by planning questions that help you you learn something as well as share information.
• Don’t gossip. It can put you in an awkward situation when you turn around and find your boss listening to the conversation.
• Notice nonverbal language, and pay attention to cues that it is time to change topics or move on to another conversation. Don’t try to force a business conversation when you sense a socializing mood.
• Don’t stay in one group, move around and make contact with as many people as possible.
• Avoid discussing work problems. This is not the place to vent your frustrations.
• Keep count of how many drinks you have consumed, as alcohol tends to muddle the balance between social and professional settings. Alcohol can make having conversations less stressful, but it also can make professional contacts take a second look at you if things get out of hand.
• Use good manners. Show your gratitude even if the food is not quite up to par, for example. Don’t complain about the parking, the location or the service.
• Dress appropriately. This is a work-sponsored event so treat it as an extension of work. An office party includes those who determine your next career moves.
• Although the setting may feel more relaxed, don’t ask your boss about salary increases or opportunities to advance your career. Conversations like this can easily put your boss in an awkward position.
What is your opinion of office parties? Are they valuable?
