The holidays are approaching, and with them comes the opportunity to make career blunders when you forget that office parties are still associated with work — under the veil of celebration.
True, the people you work with every day play a part in a satisfying career, and the chance to mingle helps build stronger relationships between colleagues.
Having a good time at office-sponsored events is the goal, in fact the informal networking tends to strengthen communication and gives those you work with the chance to see your personal side that often gets lost in the daily routine.
It’s the personal side of office parties that can bring a mixed bag — drawing people closer or sending your career in the wrong direction. Holiday gatherings are wonderful opportunities to connect with those in different departments by having conversations based on interests rather than workplace discussions.
So how can a holiday party send your career in the wrong direction?
When you forget you’re still at work.
According to John Lee, vice president of brand marketing for Embassy Suites Hotels, “Mixing and mingling with managers doesn’t need to end in a conversational disaster, if you follow some basic guidelines.”
While the market continues to be somewhat unsteady, now is not the time to let your guard down and lose sight of the fact that you are an ambassador for your employer no matter what your work schedule dictates.
To help you make the most of your holiday office party and take your career in the right direction here are some suggestions:
• Prepare ahead of time with good conversation starters that encourage dialogue. Avoid excessive talking, and pay attention to when it’s time to move on to meet others.
• Make the most of the event by seeking those who could be influential in your career and you would like to meet .
• Limit the intake of alcohol. It’s difficult to erase memories of seeing colleagues tipsy.
• Be sensitive to “talking shop.” Now is a great time to develop rapport based on what you have in common outside of work.
• Take the time to express your gratitude to those involved in sponsoring the event.
• Watch your food consumption. While you may love the cream cheese rolls, make sure you leave some for others.
• Dress appropriately, and keep in mind that while you are there to have a good time, others are watching you.
• Avoid office venting, no matter how tempting.
I ‘d like to hear about your office holiday parties, and the advice you would give others based on your experiences.
While you are recalling stories, check out this holiday contest, your story might win a complimentary party for your office. The deadline for entries is Dec. 4.
